Welcome back Shelila

Submitted by Chelsea, Aug 5, 2018 at 18:44

It is great to hear from you again. So glad you are doing well and came back to the forum ... as always your comments are so helpful and very much needed. I was telling my friend of 20 years the other day who tried to tell me not to go overseas but could not stop me about this forum. I told her that no one could really understand unless they had been through this. It is different ... we are in love .. may be vulnerable at the moment.. they are on the prey.. and in bezness. My friend cannot even comprehend. I never even got into a deep discussion with her about any of it. This forum was the place that I found the answers from your experience and others. From that came recovery. Wish I had found it sooner but came out ok and the wiser.

Now with our experience we can put purpose to our pain and really warn women such as my friend of 20 years who really could not even understand this enough for me to even tell her or even my family. But these precious women Shelia, who come here before they get emotionally ripped apart, guilted and confused still have a chance to recover before the blow and that gives them a chance and us a purpose. I don't hate anyone but I came durn near close to it. But at the cost of the damage done to our women...let us keep on shutting down their bezness, Love ya!!!!

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