This is what many Mena Men do!

Submitted by Sheila (United States), Aug 3, 2018 at 16:34

Hi Jackie,

It's hard for us to understand or imagine doing any of these things to another human being but everything that has been posted to you is the absolute truth. These men are such the great actors. They should get an Oscar for the performance. They will tell you what you want to hear with sugar dripping out of their mouth. It will be so sweet I'm surprised I didn't get a cavity from listening to it.

They want to go to a western country because there's much more opportunity for them and to provide for their families. Algeria is not a place you pick to be living. The women do what the husband expects. If he's married I'm sure the wife knows about everything and so does the family. That's the reason for meeting them and to what I call "sucker" you in even more. You're being setup for the kill in other words. Meaning using you for everything they can.

Mena men also think of western women as being easy, drinks and smokes a lot , hangs out at clubs and has one night stands with no problem. If you asked him if he thought this, he would say no but I know for a fact they feel this way and they talk about it when discussing their "rat bezness". They will compare Western Union receipts to see who received the most money from ONE of their foreign women they are using.

There's no way to tell you all of it. I think you have the general idea of how most Mena Men are. It's not worth the risk. You have too much to lose including yourself!!! He will sugar coat everything to get what he wants.

You mention the little girl is with him a lot during video chat. I'm telling you it's a very strong possibility this child is his. Algeria does have bad internet connections. Only thing is they will use that as an excuse also to do some of their deceiving. I know you have been commented to a lot about this.

You're confused and worn down. Think about this, if this many strangers are trying to save you from taking a risk that is sooooo not worth it that we are definitely telling you FACTS about majority of them. More of them do "Bezness" than don't do it. I hope you read about it or you are planning too.

I'll stop because I know what all this can do to you. Please do keep us updated. Also, I'm not sure exactly what made me come back to the forum yesterday but I'm sure glad I did. I hope these comments and posts to you have been helpful. We are just very concerned Jackie. WE KNOW!!!

Take care and hope to hear from you soon.

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