It's the same pattern Jackie

Submitted by Sheila, Aug 3, 2018 at 01:20

Jackie,

I've gotten more read. The multiple Facebook accounts and him denying everything. It's the same story just like other mena men. He will never be truthful with you. I'm telling you I know from experience. He will lie to your face.

I say the girl you asked him about from YouTube is most likely his daughter. He probably is already married and his wife knows about everything. Yes she would go along with it because this would be her chance to get out of the dark 3rd world country. They are accustomed to accepting whatever the husband wants. Their feelings don't matter even if she was against it. They do not live anything like a western country. This will be complete cultural shock to you. American women/other western women are not accustomed to living this way and you would not adjust to a miserable life.

I feel in my heart everything is a lie. Get out of this before you get into something you can't get out of and your heart is shattered. He will not care about breaking your heart. They are roofless men. If there's an age difference, that's another big red flag because they do not marry women older than them unless it's for a green card. Don't waste your money. Not only will you be responsible for him for 10 years but if you don't have him on your health insurance and he needs medical attention. He can sue you for it. A girl on this forum told me about someone she knew that this happen to. It was in the USA too.

There's a lot to consider Jackie. He will lie to your face and I'm so sure of this that I would bet my salary on it. I really pray you leave this alone and put him out of your life. Algeria is not a vacation place for a westerner. I promise you it's not!! You shouldn't feel safe not even in public. You will be in his country and you need to really think about that. Women are only important because men need them to bear children. In these countries they will tell you they prefer boys to be born because they are superior. I hope you read about "BEZNESS" (Rat Bezness) it's all true!!!

Many prayers to you Jackie and don't go to Algeria. It's a mistake!!!

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