Good luck

Submitted by Mandook (France), Jun 21, 2018 at 08:43

Dear Luhx,

I wish you all the best in whatever you pursue and hope you remain happy forever.

Just be careful since,the husband's family,in such cases,gradually influences the daughter in law to adopt their"ways of life" once she becomes a mother and so is ecstatic and drops her guard,unless they are sufficiently westernized.I certainly hope they are.Just be cautious all the time.Eternal vigil is the price of freedom.There have been many cases,that I have known,where the D-In -law ,needing a father to help the children grow happily and in a stable family and face the society with dignity,is gradually converted and then follows further restrictions.Under the circumstances,she becomes helpless.God forbid that in your case.
Best luck,dear.

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