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Submitted by Sabrina (United Kingdom), Jan 10, 2018 at 09:51

I met an Egyptian guy and he is 25 and I am 43! He seemed lovely when I was in Egypt and when I get back to the UK I find he had a Facebook account full of women he has made comments on their photos habibi and heart my love etc. Then I find he has another account for his Arab friends who he started having women on also he wouldn't then add me . I got paranoid and he said they had been hacked and he had to pay to get them deleted which he eventually did I asked him to also delete messenger. He said he wants me to meet his family next time I visit. They know about me he said he loves me and wants to marry me. He started not messaging me at night and I find out he takes tourists out at night shopping or whatever so he wouldn't message me .

At this stage I have serious red lights warning signs going off and I wouldn't ever have gone there with him if I knew all this before hand. We fell out because he said I was jealous which to be honest with all these things adding up I have a reaaon to be I ended up telibg the hotel he takes women out after work and he got fired I offered to send him money equivalent to his salary every month till he gets a new job. He hasn't really asked me for money I offered for taxi when I was in Egypt he paid some and I paid some I paid for two nights at another flat which he did ask me for because it was expensive for him not for me. He was very protective when we were out at night .

I am confused as I keep researching about the horrible things and I am not sure if it is me or I am on the mark. Any advice would be Mich appreciated he even told me he doesn't want my money but I said yes because I can't see him and his family without . I don't look 43 people say I look 30. I don't know what to think it has been two months since I saw him hr has messaged me every day just not the nights and we are back together I am due to go out again end jan but I will be paying for it all which I don't mind if genuine as life is about sharing etc and I am aware I told his work about him going out?

Thanks in advance Sabrina

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