To Luna

Submitted by Lana(USA), Nov 25, 2017 at 14:21

Hello Luna

You just put my thoughts into words!!!

Now I am completely healed and neutral about him.
I can discuss such topic without being emotional,as he rarely crosses my mind now.I keep ignoring his calls messages,etc.To him I am always unavailable and this is for lifetime.

I have much more important and more interesting things to do than wasting my time thinking of "what if"...Because now I know that for sure that it was a dead end "relationship".Too many lies and empty promises,deeds never matched with words....Enough!

We tend to build our dream future in our mind way too soon with someone who is not even remotely genuine...Well played,I could tell,looking back..Forgiveness granted,trust-denied!

I came to the same impression piece by piece,that those MENA boys have no regards to us as a persons ,with our thoughts,emotions and wishes.They could care less how you feel as it is all about them!!!!..For them -we are a trophies-the more ,the better(for them of cause).They see women through "better than a dog ,but worse than a donkey" attitude.More often they are known as Modest men among their own "tribe",but not to the westerners.Yet,we still want to give them the benefit of a doubt,being warm and kind person,but end up broken-hearted...

Now I had to ask : will you be willing to be in a relationship with someone like this,who does not considers you as the best thing that happended to him in his life?I would not,for sure!!!!

Do not settle for less!!!
We do not owe them anything and if they do not like us for who we are in whole,as an equal person,they do not care or respect or value you,then that person should not be with us.
They have to prove that they worth to be honored by us to be the father of your child and a great lifetime partner.

Ladies,do not be another trophy to someone who takes you for granted!
Much love to all!!!
Lana

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