Thank you Cheryl

Submitted by Linda (United States), Nov 7, 2017 at 09:42

Your comments regarding my ex-friend Judy#2 (now known to my other real friends as XFJ2). It is doubly hard for me as we work in the same WalMart so I see her every day. I have reached the point that I can manage to not be where she is so I don't have to speak. Not that I don't want to but my own self-respect and pride are trying to surface again and not be some kind of idiot, foolish friend trying to hold onto something that is not.

Kind of feel like I personally have been used and abused by Zachariae (Nabil) Jaddal myself. He has taken from me a piece of my heart and XFJ2 knows, but does not care. Well, should he ever actually make it to this country and get his claws into her I hope it's all she wished for and then some.
Although since she is on total silent treatment to me, I really don't even know if she's come to her sense regarding this one and has found another one to take his place. I rather think not. I've tried every way I know to find either one of them on FB and even on her 'other friends' pages she has removed her pic and he is on radio silence also. Probably out there still hunting and gathering.

No matter if she ever contacts me again, or tries to be the friends we were before, I now know she also will lie (says she hates liars, but???). So even though, I have not personally fallen under the spell of a RAT I feel like I have gotten the worst end of the deal and thus have something in common with all you other ladies who have firsthand experience. I'm just a second hand victim.

I continue to visit here because it helps me to understand this mess. I thank all you for your comments, advise and wish all you well in your struggle too. Thank you. Oh, just so you will know, I will never forgive him for causing this....not that she does not have her part and it's really a bigger part than his because she is the one to shut me out and she knows I know which is part of it all.

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