Hi, HH!

Submitted by Lisa, Oct 20, 2017 at 09:33

Hi Everyone! I'm back here again after months of disappearance.

Greetings to you Siobhan, S.T. Luigi, Sheila, Lana, Neptune.... etc.....

No, I haven't found "the one" and the ex-Marrakesh scum still makes his appearances every now and then.

If you all remembered, he stole the guesthouse business and "squandered" away around 40K Euros (I believe he stashed the money somewhere) and had the nerve to try and convince me to set up a 2nd one. His reason: "ONLY so we can make more money so we can make back what you invested." Well, not one cent from him even though the business is thriving.

Ok, why I'm here. HH, how is it that your ex-rat is able to contact you if you have blocked him - like block his *ss everywhere?? I think NC is very important for your healing. Their reappearances will prevent us from healing completely. If he is creating new FB accounts and posting comments on your posts, you can adjust your settings and only share posts with "friends". You won't believe how unsettling it is for them not to be able to read your posts or get updates of your life from FB. If you can give details on how he has been able to connect with you, maybe we can help you stay NC.

The reason why they try to reconnect is to test if they still have power over us. The other reason is of course, they are still hoping to get something from us (while at the same time trying to get what they want from other women - current and exes!). Mine admitted to having slept with our Bed & Breakfast guests and asked for forgiveness (although he later added he wasn't sorry, he knows I'd never forgive him and so we would never go back to what we had been), I asked him: "Teach me how to forgive you." And he said "Marry me." LOL!!!!! They really think we are fools!!!

I can't believe that 8 months down this road, I'm still struggling to let it go.

Would love to see it for myself when Karma serves him what he truly deserves.

Hugs to you all!

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