Very apt reply

Submitted by Lotus, Oct 3, 2017 at 06:06

Thanks,Linda for your short but perfect reply.

Ideally,one should not fall for anyone whose credentials aren't known.Meeting them online or even in person for a couple of days and fall in love is something risky and not advisable at all.

How often do we meet good people even in our immediate surroundings and how suddenly relationships of years deteriorate? One does take chances but with people of totally different ethnicity and culture is something very tricky.

There are many people of various ethnicity and culture in the U.S. and U.K. as well as in many European countries.How often do we find successful marriages among them?There are differences which can't be bridged by love.Granted,some men and women are unlucky( in terms of looks,financially insecure or evn recovering from a broken marriage etc.) in life in more ways than one but they should never risk their dignity and safety like this.Easier said than done but worth practicing,for one's own sake.

Best luck and reagrds,

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