Talking On-line for 4 years to Moroccan Man

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jun 5, 2017 at 13:33

Here is the problem Ruth:

1) It doesn't matter how long you've been- talking on-line because there is only so much that you can communicate on-line even with Skype. More advanced dating concepts such as mirroring do not happen on-line. If someone is lying, the amount of information drops considerably.

2) But would he really just mess around for 4 years? Seems like such an investment, huh? Fact is a lot of these liars and scammers are patient. They will invest years into this. And during that time many of them are talking to other women on the side.

3) I have significant doubts that he and his family are okay with you raising your kids together as Christian. I also think this could be a cover that he can project with false sincerity if he means to just get a VISA and then leave you when it's convenient.

4) You need to listen to your instincts here. You're on here posting because you don't trust him, and you have no good reason to. Talking on the internet to someone from a different country---that's not going to be a trusting relationship at all. Just read this blog, Ruth. The behavioral patterns and the evidence speak for themselves.

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