Not at all .

Submitted by Neptune (United States), Jun 2, 2017 at 23:25

Dear Erika,

You don't have to remain celibate at all.Just get proper,credible references about a man who you like and then tread carefully.Do not allow him to go beyond the basic kissing.This is not to play hard to get but to let him know that he has to respect you and your wishes and can't impose himself upon you.You will not give in easily.Men are hypocrites.They want the action but despite knowing that the action involves both people,he must get what he wants and once you give in,he paints the town red--calling you names.

If it's going to be--and I want it to happen to you without you ever becoming desperate,it will happen and the best person meant for you will appear soon.Best luck.

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