Dear insodeep!

Submitted by Lana(USA), May 26, 2017 at 09:10

Hello
I know it is easy said than done but....
You should not let anyone to walk over you.
No man in this planet has a right to humiliate or abuse you whether it is verbal or physical.You should not fear him leaving you-consider it as a blessing.
There are plenty more good,kind,caring and decent men who are caring and gentle and will be afraid of losing you,not the opposite.
Leave that peace of junk behind and move on.
You do not deserve to endure that kind of treatment-his rudeness and abuse.You are much better than this.
Besides it seems like he did not put any effort on his end to care about your feelings and emotions.
The more the abuse the more goes down your self esteem,and then-comes manipulation.
He is not afraid of losing you !!!!
So ask yourself why do you have to put up with all of this?
Just walk away from this thing,I can not even call a relationship,because it is not a healthy one.

Later,down the road,you will be questioning your own sanity if you continue it.Be the "one that got away" rather than "the girl in tears" and let him do the math of why you left him.

Keep no contact by any means!!!!!(Pleasse,read and educate yourself more about Narcissism,and you will understand better- why it is important to ignore his calls and messages.As soon as you figure him out,he will become so predictable-you will be laughing).
Please read over multiple stories on this forum,so that you will get a better picture what you are getting yourself into.

I would rather go to some nice place to spend your vacation where you can enjoy yourself rather than setting up for potential disaster.
Stay strong,girl!!!!
Hugs
LANA

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