Hitting/abusive/ threaten/punishing are all wrong

Submitted by Jessica (canada) (Canada), May 22, 2017 at 02:53

Any guy that hit you being abusive and threatened you and ignored are all the wrong guy. love is not about that. love should be happy and sharing and understanding and communicating and loving. any guy is abusive and hit you should not be in love with that guy. total idiots and jacka$$..i know there are some jealousy. like i went to shisha bar with my co workers yesterday they are all egyptian and Lebannese and i was having such a great time smoking shisha and drinking coffee with them.. we have a blast.. shisha bar you can sit there hours and hours drinking coffee and smoking and mohamed was so jealous because he dont want me to go to shisha bar because its mostly guys. he told me over and over again LOVE mean jealous. if there is no jealous there is no love. and i agreed with him. i can tell myself i dont get jealous easily im very out going and love to tried new thing and joke and laughed. i even send my shisha pictures to Sheila that we talked on regular basis. oh by the way. im happy Sheila's health is gotten better from what she send me. you can see it on my facebook too. as i say i dont get jealous easy that mean he love me more than I love him. honestly i have so many guys friends in my life more than girl friends. i get along with guys better because they are not bitchy or back stabber or gossip. and my best friend were guy in the past. women are more sensitive i can understand that im a woman. and alot of women had grudges and dont let go. im easy going and straight forward if i dont like anything i say it straight to your face. im blunt and dont like to put things in heart. so of course when you are in a relationship should be jealous but when it come to abusive and hitting that is another level and its not a healthy relationship at all. mohamed always jealous of me if i go to shisha bar or talk to guys or go to karaoke bar with friends that is including guys in it but he explained to me why he got so jealous but never say anything abusive to me or ignore me or punish me with silent treatment for many days. never did that once. if hes any of these things i dump him long time ago and i mean it and he knows me and my temper well enough.

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