your post is a spot on Lina

Submitted by Jessica (canada) (Canada), May 20, 2017 at 04:05

your post is a spot on Lina couldnt agree more. yes they dont know what is NPD mean im sure. it is exactly what you said. they were raised this way and its ingrained to them since they are in their mother's stomach till now. they dont show emotion or caring. because they dont know how to from earlier on they watched thier father how he treated women and thier mother. i did brought this up this up to Mohamed and he did agree to what i said. thank god hes not like that. very very few percentage is like mohamed now that i goes to other forum too and they are men like my mohamed because these men have education and were taugh by their parents how to respect people and how people wants to be treated. because its a muslim world they dont know what is NPD or sociopath or psychiatrist. most of them their eduation is limited. yes and they feel the rich should be share equally. its how they are brought up.

just like for a simple thing. they love to bargain and as for us here we never know how to bargain. if you bargain in here there is no such thing. even if you are going to a flee market and you tried to bargain the seller think you are so cheap. its the same concept. we were brought up never bargain and they were brought up to bargain about everything in the market. i even told my mohamed that his phorphet is a phedophile because his wife Asha was only 8 year old and married phophet mohamed and hes twice her age. and my mohamed said muslim people is about love they love older women and younger women. you see Phophet mohamed first wife was 25 years older than him and his last wife Asha was 25 years younger than him. he told me real muslim men doesnt matter the wife is younger or older. lol. but he married Asha when she was 8 year old asha's dad was his friend and he dont have sexual intercourse with her until she was 18. of all the wives he had he loved the oldest wife and asha the youngest wife the most. his first wife died then he married asha. i think muslim men they know how to love a women but caring is another story. they dont know how to care.

this is example of love bombing. when you are in love its like fire and miss each other 24/7. even when you dont talk to him/her in one hour you missed him/her so much for example love is like a boiling hot water in the pot. when the water boiled and smoke came out of the pot that mean you are deeply in love and kissing and made passonate love and have kids. when the hot water cool down in the pot that mean you have kids and settle down now came the hard part is caring. can anyone care for someone if your kids are sick you sit up by the bed and watch your kids make sure they dont have high fever and give her medicine everyone 4 to 6 hours. and if your spouse are sick you have to make nice chicken noodle soup from scratch for her/him and if one spouse gotten in a car accident or cant walk then you have to bathe him, take are of him. or even feed him that is the caring part. anyone can have sex and have kids they called it love but caring is not easy. thats what i said most dont know how to care. caring take patience and practice and not easy. love is easy. anybody can be in love bombing and its like burning hot water in the pot. caring take time and patience..its like any man can fathered a child but it take a real man to be a DAD. thats what me and mohamed talked about this all the time. he even say most muslim men dont know how to care but only love but he say to me he will care for me forever and take care of me when im old. i hold on to his words. not that i believe him. im not niave.

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