Scammed and ridiculed

Submitted by Zaina (South Africa), May 19, 2017 at 14:46

Hi everyone

I married an Egyptian man who stole money from my account. He was cheating throughout our marriage. When I confronted him about the cheating and theft, he beat me. I then left and came back home to my country(SA). He is currently in a relationship with the American woman from Kentucky which he was making plans to meet with while I was with him. I asked her why she had to do that I guess I needed answers. She told me she didn't know that he was married but now they are together and I needed to stay away from him and stop bothering her. She told me my marriage was over a long time before she came into the picture.

She advised me to divorce him quickly, she was very nasty and confrontational . He was texting me asking for my passport copy. He said he had already divorced me but needed to send me my divorce papers that's why he needs a passport copy, My God, can he lie or can he lie?. He told me he was on Army duty. He had open a case of theft against me, as I had stolen money before I left. I had also left the country without his permission and this is a crime. Whats strange about his lie is that he bought me the ticket, he even texted me saying so, boasting and defending himself that he used the money he stole from my account to buy me the ticket. So I shouldn't ask for so much money back as I have used some of it myself.

The con artist is dreaming of a green card after he has stolen thousands of dollars. I loaned him money for his business now, he says I was a partner, I asked him where is my contract as I was a "business partner" He is verbally and physically abusive .He was calling certain women as toilets. He would tell me a woman with a child before marriage was disgusting and called them toilets. It turns out the American woman is divorced and has a child, drinks and smokes. She had her child 3 years before her marriage, she is now divorced . This is far from what he was preaching before we got married. Today he is planning a future with her.

I texted him and asked for my money, He had told me he would pay it back so that he would be free of me. This serves me very well. I realize who and what he is, to think that I saved myself for him.

Now is hiding from me, he has changed his number. This is a common game, He has a friend who has been running away from his Austrian wife. They were together for 3 years but when he got to Austria, he left her after 6 months.

This is a game for these boys, messing with foreign women for benefits.

Dont get into this mess, please. it will ruin your life

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