Other Forum and my opinion

Submitted by Jessica (canada) (Canada), May 12, 2017 at 04:55

Hello everyone and all readers

I want to share something with all of you lately i been in a couple of site on my spare time when everything is done at work and at home then i got the chance to sit down and relax and talked to Mohamed as usual. we been talking so much our plan and the upcoming trip to morocco we all so excited. and i did told him that all muslim men are mostly bad because you guys made a bad name for yourselves. of course he doesnt agree with me. he told me alot of good muslim men out there you just have to find a good one. he always say good men come from good family back ground and valued. and of course he treated me so good this 3 years and he also told me to check at some other site western women married muslim men. and well guess what i did find some site and there is one site litterally 50 percent of non muslim women married to good mena men are happy and successful . then of course there are other 50 percent dont have a successful marriage. and its so funny there was one site Jordana was in there too. you all know the Syrian/Palestinian/american lady im talking about and she gave very good advice a few months back but now shes not on here anymore. maybe shes busy on the other site and all her posts and advice was there. she gave similar advice as she gives on here. as the other forum i was talking about and i did read alot of successful marriage to muslim men. i even copy and paste one commenter to Sheila as we talked daily.

alot say they met there husband online and the rest are history. few ladies said they met thier egyptian/moroccan husband online for 2 months went there and met few time and gotten married and they are happily married for 18 years and produced 2 children. the other lady say almost the same thing and her husband is very good to her and very family oriented and treated her like a queen. the only thing her husband changed is falls deeper in love with her. He contributes 100% of his salary to their home, works extremely hard, helps out at home and does not believe in what is mektoub. he believes life is what you make it. then she continues she accept there are plenty out there who will lie, cheat and decieve to get a green card, but there are plenty of good Moroccan men out there also. she wish readers can put your experience behind you , learn from it and move forward with life. im writing from a commenter wrote on the blog. and another commenter wrote " I guess its hard not to be mad at this man, he was a real jerk, i have run into these backwards attitudes in Middle eastern men, But women have to take some of the blame really, are you really what a man would want. If you are 200 pounds and ugly even if you are white, why would he want to marry you when he could at the drop of a hat get a beautiful girl from his own country who is already muslim to marry?? We get all mixed up into fairy tales and these ideas of them being romantic and sexy.. Well you are right or whoever said that. They have far less sexual experience and they lie easily. i have friends who have been married to Moroccan men and they have been treated exactly the same way, why is it seven years to be the longivity of a fake marriage? Well ladies we have to be more choosy and fewer of us will be hurt.

these is just an example from what i read in the other forum i just copied it from words to words. so all along i was in the wrong forum as you all know this is for non muslim against marrying a muslim men forum or the DP forum.. and all the successful one are on the other forum. like i said in the beginning i cant say its all successful but i see 50 to 60 percent are successful and the other are not successful at all. i hope i dont offend anyone by sharing this. i wont post as much as i use to be but im more of an interests in the sucessful forum now. perhaps its better for me. oh and also there is one lady pretty had similar story to me and Mohamed. she met her husband and her husband work all the time (except he dont have a shop nor a techician) and he never go to internet cafe and chat with any women.. he never asked her for money or anything and they got married 10 months knowing each other.. they still happily married for 7 years now and have one son.. he only had one facebook and very little friends since she had gotten married to him and he dont use facebook at all. except my Mohamed only had 3 friends and he dont like to use facebook too. he told me he will cancel his facebook soon and just communicate with me through whatsapp since we are talking to wahtsapp everyday or skype. he only check on his facebook once in a blue moon just to check on me to see any arabic men like my pictures he said. i used to have alot of arabic men before in my facebook but i deleted them all since im serious with Mohamed. he does get jealous other than that he is everything perfect.

i wish all the ladies in this forum have a Happy mother's day this Sunday for all who are mothers.for all the single ladies enjoy the special day with your mom.. im so blessed in my life i have the 2 most beautiful girls a mother could ever ask for.. i thank god everyday for that. Life is really wonderful if you really think about it. i read a post on my facebook the other day one of my friends posted it. if you have a roof over your house you are blessed. if you have food on the dinner table you are blessed, if you have a job and a car you are blessed. if you have a good loving family and siblings and good health you are blessed. if you are still breathing you are blessed. not everything involve with money.

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