Hey Cynthia from Chelsea

Submitted by Chelsea, Apr 23, 2017 at 10:53

Hey Lady. I don't come here too much anymore just occasionally. I'm keeping a very positive attitude in life these days.

It is a shame that someone has infiltrated this very helpful forum for people like me and others.

You and others have been a great help to me in my recovery.

I hate to hear that you're still having problems with this person who is absolutely psychotic. This person has NPD disorder. Anyone who talks about themselves and such admirable way is really not quite all there.

With that being said of course we don't want anything bad to happen to this person but there are some people we just cannot convince that they may be in danger.

My concern now is for your peace of mind Cynthia. This person is not worth getting aggravated about and I know I'm probably going to get blasted for saying that. But it really doesn't matter to me. I see it for what it is. It is somewhat quite pitiful.

Dealing with the MENA man was quite more than enough for me. You are a hundred percent right about them.

It seems that everyone here is helpful except for one. Even ladies who share different backgrounds cultural and religious all seem to get along except for one. That tells me a lot in simple terms.

I wouldn't worry too much about this person. Let them be... your personal help and your experience here is much too valuable for this person to mess with your peace of mind.

The mentality of this person should fit well if indeed this person is going to be traveling and in that case I say bon voyage LOL. Best of luck and I'm sure that this person will feel right at home in the manipulation crazy world with her MO.

I just hope that you don't get stressed out by this psychotic person because your information and input is much needed on this forum.

I'm going to be off the forum for a little while now. Best wishes to all of you ladies and gentleman y'all are the best.

Oh yeah I was contacted one more time I wanted to tell you but I was strong LOL. He is so psychotic to. I mean how many times can you tell someone to go away do they just not get it?? No really I know what it was and what it was not and I've accepted it.

Basically when I stepped on the plane to leave inside I was relieved and I knew it was over but I was still very vulnerable and allowed it to go on which was my fault.

However they do know how to really pour on the sugar like you said and definitely seem to have the charismatic charm that they must study. But believe me it's all an illusion they create your head to get what they want out of you.

Never again will I open myself up to any online anything. I wish I had come here before I fell into that. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. I keep my mind busy on other things productive things which benefit me and my growth. This is been very helpful in recovery. I wish it were not so with these men for they really do not think they are doing anything wrong. You will always be the fall girl and they will always be right just like your psychotic person who is messaging you Cynthia don't let this person get to you you have far too much experience and wisdom to bring to this forum.

Okay I've said enough blessings to all you guys I love you all and be safe and be happy and enjoy who you are on your own because there is nothing like meeting yourself again and starting over in your way in your time and with peace of mind

Love to all....Chelsea

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