For Jessica and every reader in regards to race, money, and non Muslim

Submitted by Marissa (United States), Apr 15, 2017 at 06:40

I want to say this so it's posted and my point is made. I've read stories of bragging , assuming jealousy, putting down other races ( particularly whites). I don't believe anyone is jealous because majority of MENA men are not serious about a non Muslim woman. Everyone watch the video on YouTube called Can a Muslim man marry a non Muslim girl by Dr. Zakir. He says if the non Muslim girl is a beauty queen and the Muslim girl is ugly . Marry the Muslim girl she is the believer. The non Muslim girl is a non believer. Everyone should watch it. I would post the link but I haven't figured out how to make link to click on it and take you to it on here.

Most of them are not serious about non Muslims. If there are a few that's awesome but it could still blow up in their face one day. I have been reading a lot because I want to know what I was involved in and didn't realize. You can't know someone from one visit with them . Not even 2 or 3 visits. It takes a long time to get to know a person. These guys are deceiving and believe it's fine to lie to who they call a non believer. I don't care what color you are they will do it to you. As far as money, the whites are not the only people that both partners have to work . My Mom doesn't work and never has. She didn't have to. That's as much as I will share about my parents because this is a public forum. I visited him many times but I didn't know him well enough to marry and what I was seeing was very much different from my way of life in every prospective.

I was sickened and disgusted. I wouldn't call it jealousy . It's the absolute truth. I can say I'm not jealous but happy I got out of the relationship. I have learned a lot from this forum and from doing a lot of reading. There's not many marriages that work out between Muslim men and non Muslim women. Judging others on how their relationship worked out is not humanity. It's best not anyone does it to my face I can tell you that. Some people don't have any compassion or morals. Only a fool will believe everything a MENA man says and they should only believe half of what they see from them. I have been to Algeria enough times to know how different they are from 1st world countries and most Arab countries are different. They are years behind. Their unbringing is different .

Someone I know who is an elderly woman said she believes we are separated by large amounts of water because we were not intended to mix because we are very different . We are all human but no other true similarities. I was reading the story of Janet Jackson and her husband Wissam Al Mana. She talked about how he made her wear the baggy clothes and cover her head except for her face . She wasn't allowed to wear makeup. There were times she thought about suicide because of him. He was not emphatic toward critical conditions, uncaring , not concerned. Their marriage split due to cultural differences. It's not because she's a millionaire celebrity and he is a billionaire tycoon. This could happen to any non Muslim woman. You can talk the talk but walking the walk is another story.

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