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I made the mistake of calling him

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Submitted by Healing Heart (United States), Apr 5, 2017 at 18:11

I know it was stupid. He told me I was nothing and he didn't think about me either. He said he has a Facebook with lots of women. I had ruined his life and that's why he dumped me. I have not experienced anyone talking to me as bad as he did. He called me an awful girl. He said not any man would want me for a wife or to be the mother of his child.

Maybe this was meant to happen because when he did this to me more of my feelings died. He used me for money and when I stopped the money, he dumped me. That's the short version of this story. I told him he had NPD and he told me I had a split personality. He said one minute you're upset then the next you're normal. He said you go from one extreme to the other with your split personality.

He said he was a true Muslim. I told him he will weep what he sows. I know he will and he knows I cared for him but it didn't matter because he used me. It's not just the older western women. They use the young ones too. He's the most disrespectful person I have ever talked to. I asked him what type of raising he had and he said oh you're saying I'm homeless. I said you sound like you don't have a soul. He called me s#%* then hung up on me. I asked for it because I should have left the jackass alone. I still can't come to terms with how bad he talked to me. I told him it's best he don't live here because a woman here wouldn't take that . Marissa called him a scum bucket and he's worse than that he's the puss that comes out of scum is how low he is. I'm a hypocrite because I told ladies on here not to talk to their ex and look what I did because I got weak. I feel I deserved what he said because I knew to leave him alone that he's not worth an American penny.

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