Forget him

Submitted by Lina (United Kingdom), Apr 5, 2017 at 05:27

First of all you need to realise that the "man" that you miss, and fell in "love" with doesn't exist. I think we females like to make ideal versions of guys up in our head, when let's face it most of them are far from perfect. You were not a sentient human being to him, but a means to an end, that when he could no longer claim any benefits from, he fell back. THIS is not LOVE in any way, shape or form. Love is patient and unconditional.

Girl you need to love yourself to the point where you won't allow yourself to reminisce over someone that USED you and cut you off like garbage! What he did was horrible! He's not even worth licking your shoe. The minute someone disrespects you by crossing your boundaries, YOU cut them off. The minute a male asks a woman for money is the moment he stops being a man - and it's also proof that he doesn't take you seriously because men like to put their best foot forth.

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