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you are human

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Submitted by Standfree (United States), Apr 3, 2017 at 13:34

you are human, that is all, you are not a sociopath. You were raised to have empathy, they are not, they are not raised this way. I do not care who you are or how long you have been with your man, they do not and can not empathize with someone that is not cut from their same cloth and by that i mean religion, culture or sex, males do not look at woman like people, or equals they look at woman as second class that can be lived with or without; especially if you are not from their culture. That is the truth and if they wish to make it to Jannah, jahannam; however you want to say it or spell it, if they ever want to make it to heaven then they must follow what the quaran asks of them. and they all reach the time in their lives when they decide they better get it right. They will use you and that is ok they will have sex with you that is ok they will have kids with you and that is ok they will beat you and that is ok, in reality you are not one of them.

But for you a woman raised to empathize with humans and their pain physical and emotional, this is hard to wrap your mind around its impossible to understand. The best thing is to keep one foot in front of the other, i promise you it will get better one day, one day you will not feel so much pain, will it ever go away well i do not think so, but one day you will make it through with out a thought, then say 18 months later he comes back in your thought but this time it goes away faster and the pain is not as harsh. You will be ok, you are stronger than you think. It will be ok, I promise you.

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