I just saw this post Nadia

Submitted by Cynthia (United States), Mar 28, 2017 at 19:02

Hi Nadia, I went to see him 4 times in Morocco and once in Tunisia. Every time I found myself looking around and feeling a way of life I'm not use to at all. I'm not insulting it, I'm not use to it myself and don't think I would be happy. Also, he was very sneaky, jealous, controlling. Each time I saw him I realized more and more this wasn't for me. We argued and it was because I wasn't happy with the relationship. I got hurt because I learned many things about him I didn't know and it really hurt. It ended and I'm much better than I was when I first came to this forum. I'm not sure how long I have been on here. It's been a while. He's tried contacting me but ignored him. I got strange requests on fb and I deleted the account for a while and then recently went back to fb. I'm careful about who I'm friends with because he made me feel I need to be. It's almost like someone has to earn my trust to a certain extent. It's what I had to go through with lies and deception

. I agree every country has their problems. There's not a safe place to be anymore but I will say I feel better if I stay close to home for now because I remember after I left Tunisia there was an attack there not far from where we were. That bothered me and each time I wondered would I see home again because that's just how wrecked I became from being in a place much different from what I'm use to. I could not ever adjust. The men when they realize you're foreign they stare at you like they have never seen a woman.

I have very dark hair with hazel eyes but I have that look that I didn't belong there plus not covering but I didn't dress seductive at all but with them you don't have to. I'm glad my life didn't end up being with him because I really believe he only wanted a visa here. He was almost demanding we apply for K1 visa. I never did because my instincts said noooooooo!! I listened and I'm glad I did.

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