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Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men

Submitted by Cynthia, Mar 28, 2017 at 07:32

I'm wishing you a happy week and I know DP don't post but maybe twice a week so I'll say I wish you a happy weekend. I have been sick for the passed 11 days but today I woke up early even though I don't go back to work until tomorrow 29th and I feel great!!! The best I have felt emotionally and physically in a long time. I think I needed the rest and antibiotics .

I had the flu and an awful urine tract infection. I want to welcome any new people since I'm on here a lot. If you have a good MENA MAN I'm very happy for you and wish you all the best . I truly pray there are some good ones out there for a foreign woman who may fall in love with one. It's a terrible pain to love someone who doesn't feel the same and they use and manipulate you. I meant say brainwash also. Love is a happy feeling like a beautiful warm Spring Day and you have the day free to do whatever you want. This is how it should feel. If you're not feeling this with your man than please step back take another look at the situation and rethink everything. I see people posting about do your homework!!! Yes please do. Educate yourself on their culture, customs, religion. Educate yourself as much as you can. This help me to make my decision and the way he treated me also. He was secretive , sneaky, and was demanding I apply for the K1 visa to the US. I started waking up and realizing Cynthia What are you doing? I asked myself. I woke up instead of bringing him here.

I'm positive he used me. There's many red flags and they're not hard to detect. Big age difference( mine was 5 and half years younger ) saying they love you in a short length of time and they haven't met you in reality, rushing you to meet them and there's a STRONG possibility they can't pay for anything , after meeting rushing you to bring them to your country. Watch out for controlling issues and sneakiness. If you're on Facebook keep an eye on his Facebook. I hate Tela never came back on here because while I was sick I figured out how her boyfriend was fixing messenger that it only read messenger under his name all the time. What he did was he went to settings , security, and then signed out of all devices. So, it can look as Tela said without them unfriending you. This way he can get on and turn his chat light off and talk to others and when he signs out he will sign out of all devices and she won't see what time he was on last BUT on your phone go to internet Facebook and sign in , look at the messages and it will give you the time they were last on. You can hide it on messenger itself but not on internet Facebook . You can key in it through your browser to sign in.

That's sneakiness because if you really love someone and you're not up to no good you won't do things like this . Also asking for money. Never give them money!!! They will tell you the saddest story to get money from you. Only give money to spouses, children, parents!! Never send it to a stranger. Meeting them just a few times is not near enough time to know who they really are.

I'm quoting some of this from Luigi and New Life because I like their advice. It's ever so true. As I said if you have a good one I'm happy for you but be sure of this!! If you have a RAT EXTERMINATE as Marissa said!!! I don't want to steal anyone's advice without giving them credit. There's a HUGE difference between a good MENA MAN and a RAT. Take care and remember stay RAT FREE!!!!!!

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