To Donna

Submitted by Lili (United Arab Emirates), Mar 27, 2017 at 05:34

Hi Donna,

Yes it will get worst when you meet and you don't agree something with him. I had this experience and wrongly was thinking that when we are not long distance the things will be better.

Now when I remember the whole nonsense story I realise that when we were talking from different countries it was much more fun and much safer for me. Once I moved to the country where he was living the things got extremely bad - lies, physical abuse, emotional draining, I was feeling so alone and unloved even he insisted I come over and paid everything for me - completely out of logic.

I moved just to give a try as he was convincing me for a year and the things happened for me that I should leave my country for a while. I mean I did not sacrifice anything because of him.
Once on site, the things become clear very fast.I want to tell you that the whole situation was so horrible that I should organise an escape from him.
So toxic and stupid relationship that deserve to be forgotten and never remembered.
If you don't want to waist your time and self respect just don't go to meet him, don't ask him to come over, have fun with him (long distance please) and try to create your life excluding him:)
These guys even don't understand how retarded are.
Keep in touch if you want to tell you more

Greetings

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