To Siobhan, Cynthia, Marissa and all: my sincere apologies

Submitted by Nadia, Mar 16, 2017 at 17:48

Hi all, I already came clean and explained my terrible mistakes. Please ladies, accept my most sincere apologies and I promise to be carefull when I move the page on my tablet or phone. I thumbed down one of Chelsie's posts. I see it has now 2 thumbs down. Don't know who was the second persons to thumb it down. The other posts were one of Neptunes, Celine's last post about going to Egypt and one of either Jessica's or Cynthia's post. All by mistake although I try to be careful. I'm sorry ladies. I didn't say anything at the time because I didn't think anybody cares much. So, if You notice lots of thumbs down since I post regularily and never before, You have the culprit here.
Siobhan,
"If the rats were doing it, then Nadia, New Life, Viraj and others would also get similar treatment. The person doing it is not very smart, you see. ;)" - My post about Paris got 8 dislikes and the one about fat Egyptians got 13 dislikes if that makes You feel better. I don't care.
"Haven't you ever wondered why someone who is having a perfect affair, with a North African Muslim, has time for a board that is dedicated to bad relationships with rats?" - I think this is a good thing actually, because this sort of person knows a lot about their culture and can give valuable advice on what to do and not to do. The best advice on French boards comes from ladies who are either North African themselves or have been married to NA men and have lived there for decades. They know how their dirty brain works best and can outsmart them, trust me. Plus they speak the languages and can help translate rat's conversations and emails to family and fiancées back home. They know real people and they know them reaaaally well.

"What qualifies this person to advice anyone who is hurting?" - their experience with rats mentality. Many women get quickly better once they realise they had a rat. Not everybody can give emotional support. I can't. But I can explain behaviour or how certain things are done in NA just becaused I have experienced the lifestyle. Some women need practical help as well in order to feel better.

"Most of us found this board because we were/are in bad relationships with these men/women. We were looking for answers when we resorted to Google and ended up here." - I think women happily married to MENA can give You answers too, especially if they have lived there. Why would You not want to see their point of view? I know women who have lived in North Africa for 5-6 decades and are still hapilly married to their husbands with grown up children. Pity they can't speak English and will not come here to write to You.

I have another theory about thumbs down. Maybe Your posts, being very useful, are consulted by many people who come here to read but do not post. And by mistake some of those people hit the dislike thumb like I sometimes do. Sheer numbers. What do You think about this?

"My Mohamed is different" always makes me LMAO. Always. I dream of hearing or reading it 10years into the relationship and life together but have never so far been able to. Ever.
Greetings

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