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Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men
in response to reader comment: Too bad and I hope not too late

Submitted by Darya (United States), Mar 14, 2017 at 13:15

Hi Nadia,
You are very smart lady with such a great sense of humor, I commend you.
I wanted to comment and ask to abstain from speaking about Islam and its teachings without knowledge. I understand that you have bitter feelings toward MENA men, I can sense and share that despise.
I have been also deceived and hurt by one of those "rats" who was Egyptian. Every time I think about how that rat deceived me, I wish that God punishes him severely (may God push him back to his original hole for all the lies and deception, may he never succeed in his life in anything, such a loser), even though my case wasn't as bad as many other ladies' on this thread.
These "men" do not represent Islam at all, they represent backwards traditions and culture and unfortunate family upbringing. They do not know what it means to be a true Muslim.
Also, for everyone's information - Female Genital Mutilation is not part of Islam (so called Islamic scholars who promote it are immoral), it is a horrible tradition practiced in African countries , in South America and some other places, and this tradition exist among Christians too.
I myself a Muslim lady from Central Asia (one of the former Soviet Union republics) we do not have and never in the history of our country had this barbaric practice.
I agree on many points you raised here, people have to be very careful when it comes to different culture, especially one where deceptions are widely practiced and acceptable, because strong survival instincts and great desire for a better life (in Egyptian, Turkish culture – the ones I know lie a lot).
Ladies, please know, when you are contacted by men from these countries, in 99% of the cases they are after Green Card, money, free sex, and fun. If not, as Nadia said- they have to come and establish themselves to prove, that they are not after Visa etc .

To all Ladies here - May God heal your heart and soul, may He grant you true love and happiness.

Peace, Darya

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