"AJ"

Submitted by Siobhan (United States), Mar 10, 2017 at 02:48

Dear AJ,
I would love to say something kind and hopeful but I can't. I would be lying to you, myself and anyone else reading this.

Do not waste anymore time on the rat. It does not get better and cannot; under any circumstance, end well. Just stop now, cut all ties with him and keep your strength and pride. If you don't, then he (sooner or later) will leave you flat and probably broke too. Getting back on your feet will be painful.

They all lie. We have all heard the same saccharine-laced stories you are getting from him. In the past I said "honey" but that's too real. Saccharine is more than appropriate for their fake asses.
They were all schooled in the same rat-school of deception. They don't know how to love.

Life is too short to waste it like this. The West has many wonderful men with good intentions. Find yourself one, please.
Should you choose to continue with this rat, then we'll be seeing a lot more of you here, believe me.
Please read the stories in the archive, so you can see where we're coming from.
Good luck AJ.

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