You are not a fool

Submitted by Nadia, Feb 22, 2017 at 23:06

Hi, glad You feel better. I understand You spent lots of money and I know how annoying it is. It has happed to me in the past although I did not spend it on a man. You gained experience, saw a new place and culture and that in itself is enriching and empowering. You get stronger and wiser and he stays a looser. His now new phone and new computer will be obsolete in 2 years plus this scam gains notoriety and will not work easily in few years time. He will be old used rag by then. The lifestyle he has is tireing and difficult. For myself I now see it was money well spent and it helped me learn a new language and get a new hobby as well. Maybe You will now study French or Arabic? Emigrate to France lol? Lots of cute Algerians here. And they at least have papers to stay.

I spoke with few scammed women and I was told his not blocking You is to make You want him more and move onto visas K1 and stuff like that. He deffinitely has not finished with You yet so be carefull! There is no other girl, western or Algerian or he would have blocked You. He wants You to feel helpless, want him more. He is sort of turning the table so it can go on his turns. But You are wiser now.

If You have the time, could You please write the story or post a link to it for others to see what to avoid. U dont need to post all the details.

Hiding his real age is common among rats as they know women worry about and often go to websites asking about success of relationship betwwen older woman and younger man And it is often then they r told they r being scammed. They lie about everything so never take seriously what they say.

Did You meet his family? Were they going along his game?

It is not easy replying here as it takes time for letter to be published but the advice is good.

Before I forget - report the rat everywhere You can! US immigration, tunisianloverats site, beznessland, russian sites, facebook groups so in future it will get impossible for him to scam unnoticed. I can help You with translation to Spanish, Brazilian, French and russian. This is the way to hell for him. My friend reported her Tunisian everywhere and now he can not even befriend girls from Kazakhstan, Afghanistan and Ukraine.

Kisses and take care. You will soon be like new.

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