To Ruth

Submitted by Nadia (France), Feb 19, 2017 at 20:56

Dear Ruth,

I understand You have been corresponding with this man for 4 years but You have not yet met him. Be carefull! Do not ever go by Yourself! Do go with Your brother or father! Deffinitely with a male relative. Can't he come and visit You first? I suspect the guy just wants some free sex but one never knows. Is he payng Your ticket ( I bet no lol) What is his financial sutuation and Yours? Does he have his own place? What if it does not work out between You? A foreign or Algerian mother can not take the kids out of Algeria without their dad's written approval. Are You muslim? Indian, black? Oh dear! Algeria is very different to Kenia and not as free. Do You speak and write Arabic or French? How old are You and what is his age?

How did You meet and did he contact You first? When did he start talking marriage?

I honestly would not go to a man.

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