To Marissa - silver ring and French girl

Submitted by Nadia (France), Feb 15, 2017 at 18:23

Hi Marissa, Did You meet the Algerian man already? Or the communication is online only? Anyway.......

The ring - might be secondhand. In Algeria many women sell their dowery gold and silver back to goldsmiths in order to fund a sumptuous Ramadan and be able to put meat on the table. Or to fund the Aïd Kabir and buy a nice big ram to slaughter. Silver and gold are sold by the gram and carat and not so much design I think. What he has done is not considered disrespectfull there and would not offend a local girl I think. It is not necesserily a ring returned by an old flame or fiancee.

The French girl - is a big fat lie. There are certainly not French tourists in Algeria, not many for sure. It does not even exist on the French tourist sites as a destination and You can check that Yourself. Most people who visit Algeria from France are Algerians living in France. And their muslim daughters do not cavote the beaches with local loosers let alone kiss them. There is police on every beach because of terrorism threats. Terrorists do not like semi naked people on beaches. Kissing or holding hands in public will land the couple in jail in Algeria as it is indecent behaviour in public as well as intimacy by unmarried to each other male and female. I have been told this lie by many unrelated to each other Algerian males on the net. It is their dream. The French girl is to them what Brad Pitt is to many women worldwide. And the probability of this guy kissing a French girl on Algerian beach is zero. Nill. Maybe he went to Tunisia or Morocco? Or France. If he pulled away from this girl why does he seek women online? Is he mentally deranged. Most are lol.

Virgin - many men in his country are virgin untill marriage. Time with a prostitute cost money they do not have. Prostitution does exist there. And many told me the same story on the net - virgin, has never seen a naked woman and so on. Maybe they think it makes them appear innocent and virtuous? I will never know whether they say the truth and it does not matter. I did meet a guy who stated he was virgin and he took out his dick on the very first day we met in Marseille. Not impressed I never met him again. On the net he only wanted friendship or so he said.

Do not believe a word this scum or any other say. Check and double check every word he utters! And mine as well lol. You can ask on other forums , for exemple expats living there or even call the American Embassy in the country. Well done for being wise and I shake Your hand for that.

Was he talking engagement, You going there, marriage, kids, coming to the States? If yes You can suggest he gets himself established in Canada first. He can emigrate there legally. If he tells You another reason why he can't or will not do it by himself, well, too bad for him. We are not a rubbish bins. We, women in the West, are entitled to normal life, respect and happyness with normal, educated and established men. Not psychopathic beggars and illiterate apes.

Any questions I am here to discuss and help. And I know the country, customs and do's and don'ts.

I wish You good luck and lots of happy time and prosperity. And real love.

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