No, Broken heart, the worst is to come if U ever marry Algerian

Submitted by Nadia (France), Feb 9, 2017 at 19:12

No, Your "boyfriend" will not marry any Algerian girl, at least untill he has a situation (a visa/residency permit to live on the dole in a EU country is their main goal lol). He is probably searching for new Westenn/foreign girls/women to scam. For Algerian girls this type of men are transparent and absolutely invisible. No Algerian father worth his salt will marry his daughterr off to a jobless student or w*nker who spends his time chatting to girls. This might be his main job at the moment. I bet the rat has not got a penny to even come and meet You in a cheap neutral country, say Turkey. I am not even talking about taking You to the Maldives, Japan or Dubai AND footing the bill for both of You. Have You already met him? If not You are in love with an idea, not him. And if You two can not even get along on the net You do not stand a chance in real life.

100% of the Algerian, Tunisian, Moroccan and Egyptian men who contact foreign women on the net are scammers big time. Yes, 100%, not 99% or 98.33% and I know what I am talking about. No matter young or old, rich or poor, educated or not. I live in France where the law is quite liberal and nobody gets deported and see their behaviour every day. They can only appear nice from a distance. In real life they a depressing, depressive, full of issues and complexes envious walking desasters. I have never ever in my life seen a normal European woman happy with this sort of guy.

Can You afford to take a year and go and live with him in a third country, say Tunisia or Mexico? If the answer is yes, than go for it and see how it goes. I think illusion is part of the problem. You can not live with him so You want him. Would You cry for an American chap who treats You as badly as this DZ rat? Would You wish to be with a man who is ready to marry any woman - fat, slim, old, young, ugly, with 10 children from 12 different men? I know how You feel but am sure You escaped a big misery and probably death.

I have been corresponding with a few Algerians and it is always the same story. They push You to go off the site You met and onto Skype, face, msn. Talk sex, romance and feelings. Try to extort money or meet You and get You either pregnant (if u r euro because a father of euro child gets permit to stay in Europe) or get You to marry them ang bring them over. Some ask for money as well. Some swear never to contact me again and r back in 5 days.

Others tell me after 2 days they are marrying an Algerian girl because nobody wants them (online) only to desappear and reappear with the same story a year later. Some pretend to be married and they r not, others hide their marriage and kids. Google tunisian rat, algerian marriage scam and "mariage gris" and see what comes up.

Keep calm, composed and find something else to occupy Your time and a shoulder to cry on. Talk to Your friends.

You should also check sites for his details. There are rat databases but many rats do not get reported. Good luck!

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