My heartbroken heart goes out to yours

Submitted by ANNE, Feb 8, 2017 at 15:16

I myself have recently been heartbroken by a Pakistani guy (I'm white British). I still can't get my head around what has happened.

He spent 4 months persuading me to go out with him, promising me he was serious about me, mentioning marriage etc. I decided to give a
relationship with him a go, We spoke every day and most of the evenings, we met up often and after a few weeks became intimate. He would come stay with me for the weekend, bring ingredients and cook delicious curries for us. He did things around my home without me asking, he went public about us on FB, all his work friends and his cousin knew about us. His cousin once told me "he loves you too much". He deleted a load of girls from his FB friends without me asking.

Then around 6wks ago (after 8months together) we spoke about him moving in with me but first he was going on his annual trip to see his family in Pakistan... We had a lovely farewell, full of love and hope for the future. He rang me from the airport and we had a few video chats. I heard from him for the 1st week he was back home, then there was a death in the family. He texted to tell me, I responded sympathetically and he replied that he loved me for understanding and he missed me very much.......and that is the last I have heard from him!!

He hasn't deleted me from anything and still has it that he is in a relationship on FB but he hasn't been online for 4 weeks now. I don't know if he is still there or back in the UK, if I should be angry or worried. It's just the worst feeling in the world as I truly loved him and believed he felt the same...

Thanks for listening

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