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Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men
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Submitted by Lana (United States), Feb 5, 2017 at 18:33

Hello Tela

Listen to your guts!
If something looks/feels suspicious-it probably is...
A man with serious intentions will not let you be in doubt of it.
Do not reveal your feelings to him too soon...I did it once....
It was bitter experience-not only he was not serious...but...Remember this:Man does not needs a woman who can not live without him.He needs one he can not live without.
Men are hunters by nature so we should not make it easy for them.
Pretend that it does not bothers you ,and carry on.Do not bring it up ,when with him-he may do it on purpose,who knows.Only time will tell.
Mine was playing mental games by doing this to me....being affectionate one day then-disappearing for a few days for no particular reason....
If it bothers you in the beginning,do not continue...the more you get attached,the more painful it will be when he dumps you...In my case-"I was the one who got away" with no words...Just could not stand such disrespect and ignorance and possibility of being one out of many of his other girls...I found out that he had different accounts on FB,Badoo,and other dating sites....Do not be surprised if yours does the same....

Remember to always love,respect and value yourself more!
Hugs!

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