Why this query at all from England.

Submitted by viraj (Australia), Jan 24, 2017 at 04:20

Dear Ms.Kane,

I am really surprised at the frequency of similar queries from England.

You have one,Ms.Rosemarie Sookhdeo from East End of London whose book" Stepping Into The Shadows" is very comprehensive.Please BUY the same URGENTLY and read AGAIN AND AGAIN.

These alliances usually lead to heartbreaks and tremendous mental agony.I can understand your affectionate nature but you might have to pay dearly for this in life.Always marry someone from your community so that cultural differences never create conflict.You don't have to convert if the man is a Muslim.Initially,they will promise a secular marriage and gradually create circumstances ,which you won't realize,to coerce you into converting to Islam.Are you ready for this?Your children will be made Muslims as well.Should the marriage break,you may not get any alimony--if the marriage takes place in a mosque-and you may lose custody of the children.The aforementioned book mentions all this.f you marry at home and with all legal documents,with all the known people around you,you can always expect help and support.Never trust anyone blindly,though.

Please understand,I am not against getting married and becoming happy for life with a man or woman from any ethnic background.Bad experiences,however,are too many .

One can't discern any person's nature from even 10 meetings.Be careful.You have to look after yourself.At the moment your heart is ruling over your head.This is thus a vulnerable state of mind.

Best luck.

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