I've read your stories Jessica

Submitted by Karla, Jan 18, 2017 at 07:53

Yes 31 years is a big age difference but so is 15 years. Muslim men don't marry women this much older than them. Mine was 7 yeears difference and he was trying to get me to help him get to the US. I read you have met this man one time and you told of your sexual relations. He's not a true Muslim because if he was he would not have sex with you. It makes no difference in how young you look or how good you look men don't do this in Islam. You commented he said you could live in Morocco. Of course he will say this because his goal is to get to it looks like you're in Canada. As I've read on here and I've read a lot of stories. You tell women they are being scammed. Jessica you need to look at your own situation because yours sounds the same as the stories on here. You would have not come on this forum is something was not wrong that you're not telling. I have maybe read 5 stories on here that the marriage was successful. These women need to realize it just may be for the time but they need to keep in the back of their mind they may get left after the man gets want he wants and sometimes it's years. Majority of these relationships of mixed cultures and religions do not work out. Are you going to convert? I don't know if you're religious but if you're not this is another red flag. You have convinced yourself your situation is different but it's not. It's just like majority of what I've read and know of. If you marry him Jesiica you will live to regret it. He's not going to admit he's scamming you and he's going to keep pouring on the sugar. I hope you're strong enough to handle when he leaves you. Your daughters are closer in age with him than you are. Does his family know about you? You said it had been 3 years I've heard of a lot longer than that and still the entire time the women were being scammed.

Your story is not any different as I'm reading. I'm reading what you want it to be or hoping it is. That's what I'm getting from your comments. All older women are flattered by a younger handsome man telling them they want to spend the rest of their life with you. The cultures are so different and hard to adjust to along with the difference in religion you have too much to try to work on to over come along with he's most likely not serious about a woman 15 years older than him. He had sex with you and you made it sound you had to talk him into it. I'm sure it wasn't hard because what man would turn down sex? I can't think of any. Men are men no matter where they are from. Muslim men keep you pure if they are serious about you. If they have sex with you before marriage it's guaranteed he does not think of younas wife material like he is saying . You get defended on here with people because that's how far back I have read. People are stating the same things you are and you tell them how they are being used but yet your story is the same and you're too blind to see it,

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