Getting angry

Submitted by Chelsea (United States), Jan 14, 2017 at 14:13

After 3 years of study on these types of marriages and reading your postings. I must say I have recovered and now am in the ANGRY STAGE of healing. This is a healthy place to be. How dare he? Really...how dare he endanger my life with his lies of I am his life and we must be together. How dare he lie to me and put me into a Target's trap believing it would be easy to get him to the US? How dare he just sleep at night when I was crying...working for him? How dare he allow me to work for him...clean houses for him...jeopardize every thing I have for him? How dare he feel so entitled that he deserved this after going online behind my back? How dare he guilt me when I trusted him? How dare he stand in a church and promise to forsake all others for me and put his family before me? How dare he give me a hope never to be realized? How dare he put me in trauma? How dare this evil self serving man use my love I had saved for so long? How dare this man to have a double standard in all things...expecting me to give without my needs being met. THIS IS A WARNING PAGE AND I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THAT YOU HEED THEM. there are not too many support groups for people like us. I...under a different name have started using the voice he would not hear to blow the trumpet for the sake of those who fall prey to these predators. I am now making speaking up AGAINST such ... I will not stay silent. These cultures simply DO NOT MIX. I AM STRICTLY AGAINST IT. Women and men are being used and getting their soul sucked out. Now if you care about anyone...you will not get on here with success stories. Did you ever think that some love lorn teen may be sucked into getting on a plane and losing his or her life over there? Think about that with your lovely success stories. Not buying any of it. I been there and seen it and the responses I get to my recordings are very alarming. Some women are scared for their lives. So sad. This is real....not play. Life's are being ruined and much worse LOST. this is the reality. Like it or not.

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