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Is this love

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Submitted by Mandy (United Kingdom), Dec 12, 2016 at 02:51

Hi there thank you for your interest.

To ask me how I go there every 3 months is my business really but it's every month to be honest and he pays the ticket.
I said he's dying to leave his country for many reasons. One to be with me stable. Away from his father I'll say no more on that. Three for better money as money there is shit. He has a good job long hours but wages terrible. Anyway we are now married and was done in court house. I went there to do nikkah quietly and no fuss. After we did nikkah I went for a nap and woke up with lots of noise banging etc. I was scared. Next thing I know there were ladies in my room to do my hair makeup henna with 2 beautiful dresses. I was in shock. I went downstairs to toilet to see the most beautiful white sofas laid out for us. Singers. Photographer etc. he arranged all in secret. He wanted to surprise me and boy he did just that. His mother had ladies cooking etc. the ladies dressed me up but said they were afraid of my face and I should do my own make up as I was to beautiful. I wanted to cry. It wasn't big wedding only 40 guests or so and I looked like a princess and felt like a queen. Everyone danced dang and blew me kisses all night. All the ladies telling me I was beautiful in darija lol. The energy was lovely. The noise was crazy. I never seen his mother so happy. We are very close. His father was not there which was my husbands choice but I'll never forget that night in all my life. He also loves Morocco and all men on here say they don't want to leave and font want visa. Bullshit. We will live there in summer and holidays as I have children to. My husband is educated and here he will have many opportunities and then I hope to bring his mother and sister for long vacations bcz I adore them. My husband is just honest and says of course I would want visa who wouldn't. He just says he never imagined or thought about it but he met me we fell in love and it's a true love story.

So your partner is coming on visit visa I guess. We don't know about any of these things but I start a new job soon and I own property I rent out and I get a great amount of child support from my rich ex so we half way on the required amount. Good luck to you and he will be ok with the cold. I just come home and I have the cold as was cold there lol. I don't look on this negative site anymore just if I get a message. All I can say is if it's real love and you are a loving tender wife with a big bum ha ha and take care of your man then you will be blessed. I am already Muslim convert for 18 years but I don't cover my hair etc although in Marrakech sometimes I have to bcz of the attention having long blonde hair etc.

good luck to you and follow your heart. Stay away from these stories. Don't read them because you won't find you or your man here. It's just a forum for bad marriages. Take care x

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