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my own pictureReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by FiYa (United Kingdom), Sep 24, 2016 at 17:46 hello Everyone, It took me long to come and say anything and maybe now when inside me there are no fillings and Im empty I can say what I think. In the beginning he kept it very in secret himself but I had to make my family and friends aware that he is in my life. I have had few situations when I freaked out and said to him listen it wont work better go separate ways. This man was very stubborn. He knew how to act around me to make me fell for him , he knew what to do so my life and so I was addicted to him!!!! He thought me a lot and I will be grateful always. I don't know what went wrong when he started to act like animal... he would abuse me verbally , he would come on the phone love me for 3 days and hate for a week. He insulted my family, my mum (she is a GP doctor) , yet I have never said bad about his uneducated parents. I actually loved his mum a lot. She is very nice, bubbly person with this beautiful smile. He would say Im prostitute, Im whore, loser, that I look like and walk like man ( I must say I love the attention I get on streets, in restaurants, parks and so on. I never complained about man actually going crazy for me- there was plenty). I am simple girl,before him I was in one relationship for 10 years, I work, I'm independent, I don't like man company, I love being alone read my books, educate myself. I like to take my mum and nanny out for dinners,cinema or travel together . I am not a party person. I believe in God. Of course there are faults in me as everyone else but who does not have them? The worst he did ? He knew Im very scared and quiet person, he knew what was my life like before him, how hurt I was , what I lost , what I went thru...although knowing and promising he will never do it and he will always look after me , he came to my life and crash it. He did it as no one never before. It would take me long time to tell u ladies what he did and how disturb I think he is but thats not the point.... The whole point of me here today is to say in what I believe. We must not be naive and think this man are same as us european american people. There is a huge difference in respect and values they being passed from their parents and religion. And I dare to speak about religion as I had took my time and read Quran in order to understand him more. I think the interpretation I did and listen to people whom I met in mosque is very clear. I do not see a muslim man marrying a christian women,personally. That plays a huge role in their life and christian women will not receive same respect as muslim girl(good practicing muslim girl,not many left in morocco). moroccan man will always desire to marry a virgin girl. They are very moody people , not many understand a smile on a women face , they take it as you flirting with the crowd. There is not such a thing as ladies first, his needs are number one then you can ask for what you want but you may not be allowed to have it.... There is no true you next to a man like that. You keep changing to satisfy him and you loosing yourself. The more he disrespect you the more you going into that false world he creates for you called love. He gets comfortable with disrespecting you and he knows you will allowed more and more next time. Until the time he is ready to stand up and leave with a smile on his face and he dears to say its all your fault. They are lazy. They full of insecurities which are eating them alive and unfortunately its been taken out on you. I very often thought why? where from? its the disable world they have been brought up, dreamers of life which they never had and wont have. They sin a lot, they sin because they live with a conviction that Allah is the most merciful and by prying and following what is requested by Islam (pretending to be good religious man) everything will be forgiven. There is so much wrong with their culture. They are blinded. We need to all remember we all have faults in our life's. However deciding on such a relationship we must take all facts to consideration , we must learn about this culture, religion, traditions...and so on. With the knowledge our road ahead can become much easier... I wont see no more. We all are not 15 years old , we are matured enough to understand our needs, we all know our own worth. Life does not finish in morocco, Tunisia, turkey...thank you. Much respect for u all! WA Submitting....
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