You will be OK. Stay with this support team here.

Submitted by Chesea (United States), Sep 20, 2016 at 16:42

Hello Tei

You have Made A wise choice in coming here to tell us your story. We are here to support you in any way that we can because we have been through what you have been through and honestly I do believe that the jordanians are worse than any.

They are very Sly cunning and compulsive liars. I would like for you to think about how much better your life is going to be without this person. Something similar happened to me in Jordan then put in the car not knowing where I was going and I didn't have any choices.

That's because you're a woman and family always comes first over there.Mime cchose his family over me chose his family wishes over mine. Basically I did not know that they were doing all that because most of it was done behind my back and there's still things that I don't know that we're done behind my back. And I tell you this because you have to know what you're dealing with. They are the most cruel under minding and evil Liars that I have ever known. The men will listen to their family and their friends over their wife and will lie to you because it's permissible. And it's all about the man's honor. They will speak their language when your present instead of respecting your language because they're talking about you right in front of you.

It has taken me 3 years to get through this recovery... I really think that you're going to be a lot better because you have a child on the way and you have a purpose in life that is So Divine and that is to love and cherish the gift that God gave you and that child.

It hurts my heart to see you go through this but you will love that child and you have a future with that child even if it's just you and the baby and there will possibly be someone come along that will be a great father and husband to you and your child.

I hate to be so straightforward and tough with my answers to you darling... But it is my way of validating your feelings because your feelings are very valid and it's not your fault.

I know that you are hurting badly and being pregnant and hurting is even more bad but if you could just focus on your child and go no contact at all. You will begin to feel better after a few months and you will be able to think clearly because as long as he can get to you he can manipulate your emotions. And being pregnant your emotions are already off balance.

now is the time for you to love yourself the way that you loved him but only more. God gave you a wonderful gift and giving you a child... something to look forward to in your life. But you must take care of your emotional state of mind your spirituality and your body and keep him away from you and that child. If you were to go back to him in his country he could take the child from you.

I see good days ahead of you if you can just throw that into the trash and take it out to the dumpster and don't look back. Remember the past has nothing new to say. If all your actions didn't show him anything your words certainly will not.

There are a lot of ladies that have gone through some very terrible things here on this forum. We are here for you and stay close by when you get week come read some more of these stories... And also speak your mind and your heart and get it off your chest if you need to. We understand because we have been through it and we are here for you. The main thing now is for you to rest take care of yourself and your pregnancy look forward to your baby and dump that guy and don't ever let him contact you again. Believe me the clarity of thinking will come back to you in time... It just takes a little time... And your mind will be clear and you can see things as they really are. God bless you and your baby and much love to you... Chelsea

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