Celina

Submitted by LeMew (United States), Sep 19, 2016 at 16:46

You don't need advice, you just need to read what you wrote. All the answers are there. No self-respecting man would ever ask a woman for buying to pay his debts back, regardless of culture. Especially in the Muslim culture where it's considered a disgrace if a man doesn't have enough money to marry/pay dowry and support his wife.

Stop all communication, heal your broken heart and move on. Learn something from this, instead of feeling like a fool. At least you won't ever let this happen to you again (if you truly learned something from it)

You were a victim. You made a mistake. However, if you keep allowing this to happen, you are actually abusing yourself. That's the worst kind of ABUSE we can allow happen to us.

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