leave him and love yourself

Submitted by Observer (United States), Sep 17, 2016 at 10:56

If he asks you for money, even $10, disappear from his life. Advice given, don't lead yourself on.

Advice for who's frustrated for not having a guy: a person will not complete you. you are full, and has to feel that way, and look for somebody full as well. otherwise there will be even a little abuse or parasitism and you won't be able to complain cause you let yourself go on in that situation. there is no two halves of the orange. if you cut it, it doesn't become one again, even with super bonder. it's not 1/2+1/2=1, but 1+1=2, you can religiously speaking be mystically like one flesh but you are TWO ppl. if u don't feel that way you'll be stepped on and if children come up in the relationship they WILL be affected by that.

isn't the world full enough with problematic ppl? do we need to give birth to more? love yourself first. If we don't love ourselves, how do we expect others to? Or, if we can't stand our own company, why do we want to torture others with it? Don't put yourself down choosing someone lame just because you feel "nobody else will want you", consequences later in life may not be nice, as we get old mind changes and we will feel even lonelier and encaged with someone we don't love by our side, just look online for stories of ppl who feel even physical pain for being in a relationship that became like that. This if you don't get scammed and abandoned first.

First of all strengthen yourself, if there is someone in life you can NOT humiliate is your own self! Know you're not the only one feeling like there's something missing in this materialistic age but a guy is a person with his lifestory, problems and needs like you, not somebody fabricated by God especially to fulfill your hole. We look for ppl to live with, not to stuff holes, or we may get into trouble soon or later.

Leave this guy.

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