I'm going to finally tell my story

Submitted by Unbelievable (United States), Sep 11, 2016 at 02:05

I was married to an Eygptian guy for 5 years. I met him in Egypt as I was there with a friend for 10 days. He and I are the same age. We saw each other in Egypt. There wasn't any sexual relations because I've heard the stories of a Muslim man has sex with you before marriage he does not have plans to marry you. I came back to the USA. We stayed in contact. I saw him on 4 other occasions. We then applied for the K1visa. He got it without any problems. He was sweet, kind, loving , gorgeous. Everything I wanted.

We got married when he got here. He paid for the expenses. I was the provider until he got a work visa 6 months later. I paid for that. Once he started working everything changed. He didn't want to touch me even though he use to say I was his beauty girl. He would wait until I fell asleep and go into The other room and shut the door . I decided to see what he was doing . He was talking to other women and doing sex on cam. I watched the entire situation. Then I opened the door to let him know I knew. He was shocked to see me. I told him to stay away from me. I later found out he was talking to a girl he was working with.

I called immigration and they told me they would release me of my responsibilities of him once I divorced him. I did divorce him. We have two children. I have our son and daughter. He has citizenship and has brought his entire family to the USA. I was so so hurt. I'm still recovering. He's not very interested in our children and this is hurting them. I did my best to be a good wife . I honored him, I even obeyed him. I was going to convert and I was wearing the scarf. I cooked and cleaned . I took care of our children and worked. None of this was good enough.

There's women on here who have been through it worse than me . Oh his parents didn't like me. I loved and adored him and I got the boot because he ignored me most of the time. It's like we were roommates with two children. I told him his children will remember how he is treating them . You see they treat those bad who are even their age and goes as far as to obey their every command. I was a fool but a fool who thought I was in love. This was not love.

I hope my story will help some women and i know there will be those who still defend them. I'm sure there's some good ones but majority on here being read about are not the good ones.

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