Replied to Straight-talk-Luigi

Submitted by Jessie (Canada), Sep 1, 2016 at 23:54

Hello Staight-talk-Luigi

thank you for your replied and i do appreciated your comments..i bet everyone that i been attacked back is anxious to read my feedback to you. of all the people that comments me you, cynthia and Jordana does make alot of sense and not much of harsh words ...

you have spend alot of time in this forum giving advice to people to show that you concern for other otherwise why would spend so much time giving feedback to people.. even JOrdana told me to follow your advice.. shes a classy lady. not like some are trash.

to answer you im not in a process of making him visa. but he called me everyday sometime 4 times a day and say how much he loved me that im so attractive thats what make him fall more and more in love with me.. i have say it so many time in my posts im not a easy target that believed everything a man say anf fall for it.. he will not use me period. i did send him links for him to applied work skill and work permit because he's a technician and will be eligible for skill worker in canada..so i wont waste any money spend on him. if indeed i sponsor him he will paid all the process im being so realistic.. and second i already made him visa for tourist he will come soon perhap in october and we will finally meet each other.. thats the day he be looking for for a long time.. he want me to married him when he come here and i say NO.

we meet first to see im not rushing at all been there done that. he told me he will paid for me everything and also he already send 4000 dollar to me. so does he look like a scammer. dont think so. thats why i said i will never be scammed and he know i put him through hell from reading everyone's posts here. do you think he can scammed me?? not easy. i been say it in here im very tough. i dont cried for a man and im not desperate i love to enjoy my single life with my 2 beautiful girls and friends..ok when he come maybe he can use me for sex thats about it but i dont see anything wrong with that we both attracted to each other and we loved each other deeply. he promised and promised he will never leave me and i look like same age as him... for facebook and stuffs he hated it i know he basically never on.. we work like 10 hours a day and he called me from his shop or skype and when he go home hes already tired from fixing fridge and air conditioner and stuffs. he eat and shower and called me and talk to me for hours.. everyday the same thats why he told me he never on facebook. only those targeted foriginer and tourist will be on facebook all the time and on internet cafe and talking to 20 women the same time. i know that will never be him.

yes its true only people have failed relationship and has been scammed came here for comfort and advice but not in my case. yes i stumble across this site while i was looking place to go in morocco because i will go there next he come here first then i go there then i accidently see this site and i click on that brought me here. and im reading everyone post and gain more experience from other's posts what scammer did to them and i texted him all the time..i have no suspecious of him at all. yes indeed im his only WOMAN. other than jealousy he would be so perfect. i think all muslim man are jealous thats what he said to me. its been 2 and a half year im sitll his women and we fight alot of time. i picked up fight with him all the time to test his temper and attitude.. come on not all muslim man are like that hes funny and out going and not all are bad..if you say they all are scammer you must be kidding me. say there are 1 billions muslim men and 1 billions are scammers. that is so rediculous even my girls and my friends laughed..lol and if anything if we are not right or if i get suspecious i can call of the wedding anytime. we go our seperate way.

one thing to learn in a relationship is you will be able to let go otherwise you will be stuck in the hell hole forever..thats why i say to the ladies in here build a bridge and move on get on with your life.. i dont see how some women can be so broken hearted there are so many fishes in the sea his not the only one. and remember even if you tried to please your man if a man wants to leave nothing would make him stay.. if a man want to stays nothing will make him leave... thats the quote i learned from my own mother...so there you go i never pleased my man.. and even if you married someone in your own culture and religion there are many marriage end up divorced within 5 or 10 years some are even less.. so if your marriage failed its not because he is scamming you its because there are problem once you are married.. marriage takes hard work, understanding, commitmemt, communication, friendship etc.. me and him aleady have all that. and i bet if we married in the future 5 years from now i keep you up to date with our happy life together then if i failed i still keep you up to date. im not going to mourn for the loss i just move on and carry on with my life. sweet and happy..cheers.. oh by the way even the invitation letter and i have to take it to noterized then he can applied for visa cost me everything 100 dollar and he paid me all back. told you he aint get one dime from me. im not like all the ladies here spend so much money on their muslim man flying back and forth invitation process fee. there was 1 post i read one lady spend over 10,000 thousand travelling back and forth and do paper work. in total shes spend like 30,000 for everything. boy felt bad for her..but not me for sure... why the man dont paid everything. if he doesnt paid at all NO MARRIAGE i should say. may have to paid for everything period. im not stupid those women must be so desperate and lonely its the best target for scammers.. it would be all hell break loose if he 's going to scam me!! I THINK I TEACH YOU WOMEN SOMETHING.. god bless you all sisters!!!

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