I want to clarify my responses

Submitted by Cynthia (United States), Aug 26, 2016 at 11:41

Hello to everyone and if you take to time read what I'm posting I thank you very much.

I want to clarify my responses since I've had 2 people get me wrong. I'm a blunt person and I try to be be as discreet as I can. Sometimes I may sound I'm being disrespectful of your feelings but i don't intend to sound this way. I question when people come on this forum who say they are happy and they ask for advice. I'm not criticizing you just because I don't say what you want to hear. I like to be what I say straight up honest. When I do realize you are not seeking my advice I won't reply anymore because there's not a anything I can say to help you once you feel this way toward me. Many of us offer adivice on here. Good and reasonable advice!

We don't deserve insults such as you're old, fat, this is in fact what you did, flipping someone story around on them, calling us desperate. I want to really elaborate on desperate. I'm in my thirties which is not real young. I have heard many times women who have ever talked to a man outside of their country is desperate. This is so not true! These men act so well they could be endorsed for an academy award. Just because some of us live in the USA does not mean every American is obese. I've taken a lot of insults from people since my ex Moroccan man. People who didn't know what they were even talking about.

This forum is full of hurt women as someone stated on here. We don't need more hurt on top of what we come here with. If I offer you advice which you asked for, if you don't like what I offer that's fine. Just don't start insulting and insulting others on here who have enough on them at this point. If you're happy with your current situation then I'm happy for you.

I sometimes question why people would come here if they are happy with their situation. I don't think that's being cold hearted to think this. I think it's being realistic. It's like we are good friends after being on this forum together for a period of time l. I genuinely care for people and how they feel. I'm not saying this should be a negative forum but it's generally used for people who need advice from others who have or are experiencing a similar situation. I wish everyone very well and I hope I have been a help to most.

Take care and God Bless!

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