Love yourself more and be careful

Submitted by Lana (United States), Aug 24, 2016 at 19:27

Hello Natalie

I know we all like to have his perfect dream of handsome and tender guy,putting his arms around us,ladies,looking into our eyes with his gaze"you are mine forever"....but most end up heartbroken...

Main thing is- no matter how much you like a man,do not let him invade your heart too soon,do not reveal waay too much to him about how you feel toward him,or go past your guard.

If it meant to be-it will,if not-you will have beautiful moments to remember.
For many years-I could not understand the phrase"live in a moment",but now i think i know what it means-DO NOT BUILD YOUR DREAMS AROUND THOSE GREAT MOMENTS/ GOOD TIME YOU MAY HAVE PRESENTLY WITH YOUR GUY,as they may not last forever-if you do not want to hurt.
Let the things unfold by itself and never push someone to define the status of your relationship,unless you were dating someone for long time- if you will be too pushy in the beginning and ask someone about their feelings-you will scare the guy away.

As we, women, tend to project our dreams and hopes on a man we like,we are causing ourselves a heartache.In other words,most likely-we are living the love romance in our heads,dreaming of "what if'....and projecting the hopes we have,on a man who is mentally "not even there yet" with us.

In the beginning-everyone gets excited,but it really takes time to know someone well enough to trust and to love.
Do not confuse physical attraction/passion with true feelings.Do not trust their words,but trust actions.

When the right guy comes your way,you will feel it without second thought and need to look for the answers on the web.)Anything is possible,but USE YOUR HEAD first,to avoid BAD ROMANCE we all tend to live in our heads.

Reminds me about the song "Wildest Dreams" by Taylor Swift,when she knows she is going to end up in heartbreak,and still dares to go afterthe guy who is"so tall and handsome as hell"...)))

Take care and be good to youself.
All the best!

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