My Moroccan romeo

Submitted by jessie (Canada) (Canada), Aug 16, 2016 at 01:58

Oh my handsome moroccan man..the day i met him it changed my life completely.. it all started in May of 2014 when i was searching on the net and i joined tagged.. so many guys added me moroccan, algerian, egytian. tusnian..i was just playing around dont take anyone serious.. basically i was looking for friends not for love.. i have two girls one is 18 the other one mid 20's both very beautiful like me.. im asian/canadian.. so i met Mohamed hes 31 and im 47 but honestly i look so young for my age thats what everyone tell me and i do im asian.. asian dont age much its in our gene..we both look the same age but even some picture he look older than me.amost 17 years difference what a age gap.. but he dont mind he said he love me so much im beautiful and cute my asian skin are so light. i told him im so old for him but he dont mind at all my oldest daughter is only 7 years than him.

. i got married so young so me and my daughters do look like sisters.. so it all started in tagged the first time we talk he said hes looking for serious relationship not play around.. then 2 days later he asked me to married him.. i was saying to my self he this guy crazy or what we just met.. then he added me on facebook. whatsapp. viber and skype then the texting non stop and video chat and eventually he did have alot of cam sex and phone sex.. our feeling is getting so strong.. the more i look at him the more i love him and vise versa.. he always told me im so beautiful and cute and doesnt look my age at all. hes smile captured my heart hes tall not very dark but handsome.. he stand 6 feet tall and wieght around 170 lbs he told me. im short only 5 feet 1.. so there you goes so much different. he always told me he can pick me up by one finger lol..so as time progress we spend so much time together having cam sex the day i dont talk to him i missed him so much.

.he never asked for any money.. im not stupid like some people send men money.. i told him straight dont ask me for money i will never send to you.. and i never send any gifts to him either.. if he love me he dont ask money.. if he does that mean he dont love me.. im asian i was brought up man have to paid for everything whatsoever.. so are arabic men paid for everything.. i told him if you ask me money i will break up with him right away.. he told me he dont need my money hes a technician he had his own shop.. he fix refridgerator, air conditioner washer and dryer. thats a very good job for a men he work so hard for his money he tell me he dont need any money from me at all..few days we met he asked me to married him right away saying he want a wife and family.. he say my 2 daughters are his daughters too. that he dont care about my age and that he love me so much that im his life.he swears and promised me all the time that he loved me for ever till the day he die and would do anything for me.. i always have my doubt about him. this is just words..im not naive..im not the type of woman fall for whatever a man said. and honestly i pick fight with him all the time.. he always say i search fight but lots of time i just want to test him to see how hes temper and attitute.. i even tell him to go to hell whenever we get into fight.. yes we do fight so many many time and we got back together..the thing we fight about hes a very jealous and controlling man.. he stalk my facebook every day and see if any arabic guys like my pictures or commenting on my pictures.. if the did he would tell me to delete the comment and block the person right away.. i fight with him so many time why i block the person he is my friends what i do is none of your business.. you cant control me and what i do its my right then he fight with me and i would tell hin to go to hell.. oh he know my short temper. i post alot of my selfies on facebook and he just so jealous any guys like it especially arabics.. he dont want me to be friends with arabic at all. maybe he scare i met another arabic i would marry the new guy and get him to come to canada.. thats what my thinking..but he told me millions of time he dont want to come to canada.. he love morocco his own country and he have his own shop and his own house.. he told me his parents want him to get married and settle down and have a family..he want kid with me i dont know of my age i dont want to start all over again.lol.. my girls already 25 and 18..his family lives in france he still lives in morocco..

so all these 2 years he want me to meet him or make visa for him to come over so we can meet.. then May of this year i finally send a visitation letter for him so he can go apply visa.he have money and property so now hes on process of waiting.. he told me its not fair for him to wait me for so long.. what do you all think do you think hes true love to me. (need some advice) good thing he never ask me money i told him i would never spend a dime for him and he knows.. im asian men paid for everything my daughters father paid for everything i told him and he understand.. he told me after we married he dont want me to work at all just stays at home and take care of kids..we really love each other.. hes smile melt my heart and i love his long legs lol.

there isnt any red flag for me to beware off he hardly on facebook.. hes facebook only have 3 friends me and his brother and his sister thats all. beside hes working all the time and only talk to me after work. then one day i found out he have 2 more facebook account. but he never admit to one.. he told me thats not his but obviously it is it has the same birthday at him. hes town and his city but no pictures.. i saw like 37 girls mostly romanian and south american girls like peru and dominican republic.. but he swear thats not his account it think thats bullshit..well the name is surely him Mohamed but im not going to say his last name.. he told me his name there are over 1 millions muslim had that name and that is true and the other facebook account he have it for a long time but never use he told him that was back in 2009 and yes i dont see any friends only a few and i know he never been on and he also added me on that facenbook account.. but thats ok before he met me he can talk to anyone.. he swear and promise hes my only woman thats why hes so jealous of me or any man talk to me because he want me to be his only woman nobody else.. and i also found out he have another account in badoo.. he told me that was long ago but he never use it.. he deleted the whole account for me as soon as i confront him. other than all these there isnt much red flag.. oh yeah sometime he didnt talk to me for 1 or 2 day he said no wife no internet in his city.. his city the network are bad.. the connection are so bad in not sure if its just his city or the whole morocco.. he lives in Taounate which is 2 hours from Fes and 6 hours from Rabat.

now hes waiting for his visa and he hope to come here and get marry with me and i tell him to come again next year to get marry..he want me to go to morocco and my family doesnt want me to go alone.. going to a country i know nothing about and meet him only i met him online so my family was hold ing me back all these 2 years.. what do you all think. should i go for it and married my love or he just want to marry me and use me for visa like the rest of people in this forum. like i said so many time he dont want canada after married he told me we can live in morocco but i dont like morocco..and yes we do love each other..i know in a way hes a very good man but i just not completely trust him yet..

thats why i read alot in here rush into marriage not knowing the man quit well yet.. i want to meet him few time then if hes right then we get married..if meeting one time and get married that just crazy like you married to a stranger..after i make him wait for 2 years and search fight with him so many time i still have doubt about him thats why i come here to read everyone comment in this forum..i dont plan to write my story but what the heck lets write and see whats other opinion and advice for me. thanks!!

i forgot one thing to mention my mohamed told me his a virgin.. im so surprised 31 year old still a virgin.. he told me had had 2 girlfriends before but never did anything. he told me his ex girlfriends are moroccan girls they are virgin too they are not suppose to have sex before marriage.

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