Comment signs of LR

Submitted by Mette-Marit (Netherlands), Jun 25, 2016 at 13:38

I want to share my experience. I fell in love online with a guy from Tunis. He was polite and used sweet words. We only texted in the beginning but after that we start Skyping to. I went to Tunis to met him and i fall in love even more. I met his family and they were al so great and sweet. He asked me to marrie him and i said yes. Than it was time to go home again, and i called the embassy to ask what papers are needed to get married in Tunis. The men told me and asked me can i please give you some advice...so i said yes ofcourse.

He told me the existence of Love Rats and geve me information site's. I start reading and there were a lot of suspicious things. So i start to investicate him together with my friends. We found out he had a fake FB profile. When i confronted him with that he told me that it was not true...told me i was wrong...asked me if i wanted to talk to a lieer! Next day we had proof and i sent to him, and now he was so sorry! He wanted to protect me blablabla.To make my story not to long i broke with him. I realised i was played for money and visa.

The truth is Western woman don't know the culture. I didn't know anything when i went there. We slept in grandma's house...really not done in that culture. My advice is to not get involved with these guy's. The story's i read are more than terrible and i was lucky to not marrie him or stay with him. The site tunisianloverats.com is a great site and it's not only for woman who met Tunis men. The book Kus Kus Buzness is also a great book to read.

I wish all woman here wisdom and always trust your instinct! It's telling you what you already know.

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