I wish you all the best Becca

Submitted by Cynthia (United States), Jun 19, 2016 at 21:20

Hi Becca

I know you can improve your life and I'm glad you saw this. I felt you were settling for him. You have your entire life ahead of you and so many things to do and experience. In time you will think of him less and less. When you meet the right guy you will think back and say what was I thinking by getting involved with a guy who does such things. This is one of the the things that get me . I'm not necessarily speaking of your ex but I know a lot of Muslim guys who said they were true Muslims and they fast during Ramadan but strike me as the biggest hypocrites ever because I know what true Muslims do not do. One is smoking weed like you mentioned, talking to girls about sex, watching porn. This is just a few things they do. There's Christians who do this too but I'm done with long distance. If it's meant for me to deal with it ....it will be right here in the US where I live. I don't have to look overseas for it.

Take care Becca and I'm proud of you. You will find the right guy I promise. You are very welcome too.

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