Relationship three years with Mortician Man

Submitted by Tina (Australia), May 23, 2016 at 20:35

2014 on Face Book a friends request was sent to me from a man from Morocco i really don't accept request from other Countries other then my own / I looked at his profile first photos etc . but still did not accept Two weeks later he sent another request . So i accepted the request he started to message me every day i would only message when i could . this went on for about 3 months Then he asked me if i would like to Skype i declined and i left this at that .anyway he kept message me etc .Then he ask to Skype me so i ended up doing a Skype he was polite and was telling me about himself interesting ..

One month later he asked to Skype again and i did this around he was asking me question about me i only answered questions that were relevant and nothing more To cut this story short i have been in the relationship for 3 years this June 14th 2016 Last year i went to Morocco to met Him for the first time but in saying this we Skype when we could i met his family in skype like he met mine Meeting him for the first time in real was great and meeting his parents was even better His parents welcome with open arms my stay there was about a month His parents looked at me as his wife But my visit was cut short due to my work back in my country .

So not to say this relationship is a fairy tale No we have had a fair arguments over the years Due to him asking for money Well me as i am said get a job like everybody else I do understand Jobs over there not many unless you are educated .so he decided to go the University in which he has. We are planning to marry this wasn't easy for me but knowing him for this amount of years meeting him and the family i feel okay to go ahead BUT there are condition i have made to him .this marriage will not take place until he has a job he wasn't happy with this in saying this i said we marry and i come back to work and we live apart No that]s not a marriage . For me i can not go over there with no income so i have said you find part-time work and carry on with your studies then i might consider getting married and staying back in Morocco . Over the three years he has traits of jealousy etc can be demanding in which i don't tolerate at all not to say am no angel i had trust issues and went to seek some help for this But a lot of our arguments is over Language barriers i do give him a lot of credit he learnt English from me.

So have read most of the reviews i see a lot of relationships that were scams etc Am not saying my relationship is perfect it took a lot of work to get where we are today but at the end of the day we fight like any other couple But love each other to bits

My advise is to women in relationship with Middle Eastern men look into every little thing if you have a gut feeling go with it when they start asking for money ditch this person. Yes they put on the charm etc i saw right though this when we first started message and Skype and i told him you can't con me that easily and he found out the hard way but a lesson taught/ So ladies be very careful out there go with your Gut feeling not by looks, charm etc look into this relationship with a open mind first

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