Totally disagree on meeting the mother

Submitted by Mandy (United Kingdom), May 19, 2016 at 20:12

I must say I met the mother after 5 months of chatting online. I met him just before we started chatting online. We were friends only no romance.
After chatting for months and him seeing fb pictures etc he became more interested. Hmmmm. We talked all night every night for months.
I went to meet him and spent one week on holiday with him.

His mother called a lot she obv worried about her boy but invited me for dinner. I went terrified and she gave thumbs up. Since then I go with my kids every month and stay in their villa and treated like royalty. Breakfast served each day. Our favourite croissants lol.

anyway I've decided to finish it as the age gap is to much for me.
I'm 40 he's 28 but I look young as him. I take care of myself.

I think he loves me a lot and I was his first relationship and that. Was fact lol. I feel bad to end it after the way they treated us but I can't help thinking in few years he would get visa and leave me. I've read of this to much and don't want to risk it. He says I'm crazy etc. he's educated very intelligent but can't find a job at present. Makes me wonder more.

How can we know if real or not bcz so many mixed stories. The mum just couldn't wait to shop for wedding dresses with me.
She said she accepted me bcz she never see her. Don so happy in years. Anyway I backed out just incase and seems o broke him in two.
Now he says I'm like all British women who come Morocco just use for fun and go home. That wasn't the case. I live him to pieces but love myself and kids more. It's just in future he could do what all people are saying here. I never gave him money btw but was always spending on food etc as he was out of work. Anyway I met all his family every day and lived with them. All the neighbours knew. Shop keepers knew. Aunties uncles I also met. Now I've embarrassed him but I have to think ahead and out of the box.

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